Therapy for Perfectionism
Therapy can help you keep what is useful about high standards while changing the fear, rigidity, and self-criticism that often accompany perfectionism.
Perfectionism can look productive from the outside. Internally, it may mean nothing feels finished, mistakes feel dangerous, praise is hard to absorb, and your worth seems tied to performance.
What this can look like
Spending far more time than a task requires
Avoiding new work unless you can do it exceptionally
Discounting accomplishments
Holding yourself to rules you would not impose on others
What may contribute to it
No single explanation fits everyone. Depending on your experience, relevant factors may include:
- Achievement-based approval
- Family or cultural narratives about security
- Competitive professional systems
- Using control to manage uncertainty
How therapy may help
- Recognize all-or-nothing standards
- Build tolerance for ordinary imperfection
- Practice self-respect without lowering every standard
- Define success more intentionally
What working together may look like
Together, we can understand what perfectionism protects and practice more flexible behavior in situations that matter to you.
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